Habits are physical, neurological patterns of thought and behavioral wiring in your central (brain and spinal cord) and peripheral (outside the brain and spinal cord) nervous system. By their very definition, they are automatic responses. If an input comes in and you're not aware of creating a novel thought with a novel response, you'll simply act on an old pattern. And this gets in the way of us engaging in the things we value most in life...connection to ourself and the beautiful world around us cause we're in pain.
Everyone of us has very good automatic habits as well as ones that keep causing us pain in the mind...and physical manifestations in the body. The painful, repeating ones are so frustrating. These could be the challenge to make good food choices which prevent inflammatory pain or engaging in the 3 exercises that keep your back feeling fluid and strong.
And what's more, whether you (temporarily) take the actions to change or not, there's almost always a lack of awareness around the old patterns' obstruction of the new. And so long term change isn't accessible in this case.
It's not easy for me to say, but changing some of my own self sabotaging pain patterns has taken years. And after entrenching myself in anatomy, neurophysiology, psychology and personal life experience, I understand why. In referencing my New Year's email, it takes focused commitment.
To what?
Small daily, but significant practices that start to shift from old to new.
1. Release by being present to old and uncomfortable physical (somatic) sensations as well as emotion as it arises. Utilize nature's feedback as well as physical and emotional tools to encourage this liberation of stuck energy.
2. Select new and fruitful exercises to retrain the body and mind. Engage in movements with presence to ensure that the nervous system feels safe to take on a new pattern of good feeling. Utilize forms of meditation to become aware of automatic patterns and conceive of new ones.
And perhaps the most important...
3. Give yourself the time to recognize and give self appreciation for the small changes you have made.
I have found this to be one of the most significant impeding behaviors (or lack there of).